Gamer???? I do believe you mean "player". And yes they are every where. women play games like guys play games. you know, its funny, women have said that they just can't figure out men. and here you are saying you cant figure out women. haha
anyways women are easy, if they are interested they will make sure to check the emails, but sometimes we get too busy and forget. so your best bet is to get a phone number and call her. this way she doesnt have to try and check her email. and there again maybe she is not interested and was being nice. but you'll only be able to tell if you actually have the balls to ask her. just come out and ask. women like men who are straight forward and take chances. you can do it.